What aspect of the faith do other Cafeteria Catholics question?

Someone said, I should not use that label because it is demeaning. I don't mind. It was like when I was gay, we called each other queers and ******* to soften the blow of those words. My favorite cafeteria was in the NYC Metropolitan Museum of Art. It was luxurious! I doubt rulings on masturbation, birth control, homosexuality, married priests, women priests, infallibility, obedience & Mass Attendance. What say YOU other CCs??????